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Q: I am moving soon and I am concerned that packing may disturb my chi. Any advice you could give me about the ideal order of packing things or which items should be moved in first would be appreciated.

A: In my opinion, worrying about how your packing process or method or sequence might “disturb your chi” is way overthinking things, and implies a reluctance to shake things up that you might want to reconsider. Moving is a big deal, it should be a disruption and upheaval. Otherwise, why bother? If the move is not by your choice, then I suggest you see it as the universe giving you a solid nudge in a new direction and accept that as a good thing.

You can’t grow and prosper without change, and we have a choice to embrace that or fight it. The fact that you asked me this question implies that you see the natural stress and mess of moving as something you have to guard against. Why not embrace it as part of the process of getting from where you are to where you are going? Have you considered that maybe your chi could use a good shake up?

I do recommend, if possible, that you declutter during the packing process, so you don’t take unnecessary stuff with you. Other than that, just box the stuff up and move it.

Enjoy your new home!

Stephanie R.

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The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it will be several days (often longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.

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Q: Is there a right or wrong bagua area for the television set?

A: No. If you truly want to be fussy about it you can consider the television to be an electronic device (fire chi) and think about it in terms of the ba gua that way, but I wouldn’t bother. More important is to realize that TVs tend to become the focal point of whatever space they are in, and to drive your furniture layout, both of which affect chi flow.

The worst place for the TV is in the bedroom, especially if you watch a lot of news; the bedroom should be a place for rest and rejuvenation and the visual stimulation (not to mention all that bad news coverage) of the TV is not conducive to a good night’s sleep.

Remember, feng shui is not just about the ba gua. The ba gua is important, but it is not the only factor.

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Q: Is it true that the bed in the master bedroom should not be placed above the kitchen oven/stove? That would be the “power” position in my bedroom & I’d like to move it to that spot. But I’ve read that it’s not good for the heart for the bed to be above the stove. Placing the bed against the other available wall would require that you walk all the way around the bed to get to the master bathroom.

A: Yes, it is considered potentially harmful to sleep in a bed that is directly above the stove.

The stove is a very active (yang) energy. A bed is for sleeping, which is a very yin state of inactivity. When the bed is above the stove you may find that you do not sleep well or that you feel tired and irritable much of the time. It could also indicate heart or blood pressure problems (the stove is a strong fire element, and fire is associated with the heart) for anyone sleeping in that bed. However, that’s just an indication, not a guarantee of problems.

Whether that’s of sufficient concern that you are willing to move your bed to a position where you will have to walk a few extra feet to get to the bathroom is up to you.

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Q: We bought a raised ranch a couple years ago and our finances are so up and down. Mainly due to my husband always changing jobs. My career is also very up and down in terms of income. I work out of my home in the insurance and mortgage industries, and am also now a new real estate agent/Realtor. But I think a lot has to do with our front door, which is just a few feet from the stairs. The entry is a very small area from which you go up or down. I read somewhere to put a rock on the bottom step going up. I had a small one there and just changed it to a bigger one. Does that help or did I read that wrong?

A: From a feng shui perspective an entry like this (small foyer with stairs leading both up and down) this can indicate increased “ups and downs” in life but is more closely associated with a lack of focus. The problem is that when you enter the house, you are immediately confronted with a “which way do I go” decision. There s no clear energy path when you step inside the home. This seems to be reflected in the job changes your husband is going through, and your own multi-faceted career.

To some extent, you may be able to lessen this with your décor: use lighting and focal points to influence where your attention goes from the foyer. Brighter lighting, eye-catching imagery, motion (such as a mobile), and sound (a windchime at the top of the stairs) are all possible ways to achieve this.

Those sorts of remedies are usually best placed at the top of the stairs that lead to the upper level, to draw your attention (and therefore chi) in an upward direction from the entry. I say “usually” because if the only rooms on the upper level are the bedrooms and bath(s), then I’d recommend instead that you place your attention-grabbing/chi-directing cures toward the more “yang” spaces of the living room and kitchen instead.

Since you describe the entry area as small, I would be wary of adding anything to that space that will make it feel more cramped, such as a rock at the bottom step. This will add visual clutter and the potential for stubbed toes to your foyer, and won t do much to define a path of movement one way or the other. Just because a solution is recommended in a book (and that includes any of my books), that doesn t mean it s the best remedy for your particular space. Every situation has unique aspects which need to be considered.

I also caution against being quick to see things as a problem. If working in the insurance, mortgage, and real estate fields feels overwhelming or distracting to you, that s one thing. But if you like the variety don t feel you have to “fix” it. In my view, multiple sources of income are always a good thing!

Keep in mind, too, that there may be other feng shui factors in your home that are influencing your career and financial experiences. The front door is an important feature of any space, but it is certainly not the only factor.

Hope this helps bring some clarity and focus to how you see your space,
Stephanie R.

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Q: Do you have any advice for me and my husband in regards to finances? We do not work well together on money tasks and the bills pile up and no one wants to deal with any of it because it is such a negative experience.

A: My best guess, based on very limited info, is that some prosperity consciousness study/training is more in order for you at this point than specific feng shui strategies. Without that (which will help you transform your expectations and attitude towards financial chores) any feng shui tactics you might use are not likely to be effective.

If “prosperity consciousness” is a new concept to you, AllAboutProsperity.com is a useful place to start. Learning to let go of those negative expectations will certainly help.

Marital discord about financial matters — lack of defined responsibility for who does what, conflicting priorities, different spending/saving habits, etc. — is extremely common. Money stuff pushes all of our buttons better than just about anything else. I suspect you might get more help from someone like Suze Orman, who addresses such issues in her books and columns, than by looking to feng shui for an answer.

I will say that if you’ve noticed the discord only happens when you discuss finances in a certain area of the home (in the dining room, for example), and that you also bicker about other issues in that space, then there may be feng shui factors involved. You should look for and correct or avoid any sources of sha chi in that room and see if you can talk about your finances more amicably in another area of the home.

If finances in general are an issue–in a broader sense than just dealing with personal/family finance tasks–then certainly you can look around for feng shui factors. But that’s far too broad a topic to be addressed here.

Sorry I can’t be of more help, but feng shui is only one of many “life tools” available to us: don’t reach for the hammer when what you need is a screwdriver.

Hope this helps in some way,
Stephanie R.

Q+A POLICY
The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Q: We bought a raised ranch a couple years ago and our finances are so up and down. Mainly due to my husband always changing jobs. My career is also very up and down in terms of income. I work out of my home in the insurance and mortgage industries, and am also now a new real estate agent/Realtor. But I think a lot has to do with our front door, which is just a few feet from the stairs. The entry is a very small area from which you go up or down. I read somewhere to put a rock on the bottom step going up. I had a small one there and just changed it to a bigger one. Does that help or did I read that wrong?

A: From a feng shui perspective an entry like this (small foyer with stairs leading both up and down) this can indicate increased “ups and downs” in life but is more closely associated with a lack of focus. The problem is that when you enter the house, you are immediately confronted with a “which way do I go” decision. There’s no clear energy path when you step inside the home. This seems to be reflected in the job changes your husband is going through, and your own multi-faceted career.

To some extent, you may be able to lessen this with your décor: use lighting and focal points to influence where your attention goes from the foyer. Brighter lighting, eye-catching imagery, motion (such as a mobile), and sound (a windchime at the top of the stairs) are all possible ways to achieve this.

Those sorts of remedies are usually best placed at the top of the stairs that lead to the upper level, to draw your attention (and therefore chi) in an upward direction from the entry. I say “usually” because if the only rooms on the upper level are the bedrooms and bath(s), then I’d recommend instead that you place your attention-grabbing/chi-directing cures toward the more “yang” spaces of the living room and kitchen instead.

Since you describe the entry area as small, I would be wary of adding anything to that space that will make it feel more cramped, such as a rock at the bottom step. This will add visual clutter and the potential for stubbed toes to your foyer, and won’t do much to define a path of movement one way or the other. Just because a solution is recommended in a book (and that includes any of my books), that doesn’t mean it’s the best remedy for your particular space. Every situation has unique aspects which need to be considered.

I also caution against being quick to see things as a problem. If working in the insurance, mortgage, and real estate fields feels overwhelming or distracting to you, that’s one thing. But if you like the variety don’t feel you have to “fix” it. In my view, multiple sources of income are always a good thing!

Keep in mind, too, that there may be other feng shui factors in your home that are influencing your career and financial experiences. The front door is an important feature of any space, but it is certainly not the only factor.

Hope this helps bring some clarity and focus to how you see your space,
Stephanie R.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Q: Do you have any advice for me and my husband in regards to finances? We do not work well together on money tasks and the bills pile up and no one wants to deal with any of it because it is such a negative experience.

A: My best guess, based on very limited info, is that some prosperity consciousness study/training is more in order for you at this point than specific feng shui strategies. Without that (which will help you transform your expectations and attitude towards financial chores) any feng shui tactics you might use are not likely to be effective.

If “prosperity consciousness” is a new concept to you, AllAboutProsperity.com is a useful place to start. Learning to let go of those negative expectations will certainly help.

Marital discord about financial matters — lack of defined responsibility for who does what, conflicting priorities, different spending/saving habits, etc. — is extremely common. Money stuff pushes all of our buttons better than just about anything else. I suspect you might get more help from someone like Suze Orman, who addresses such issues in her books and columns, than by looking to feng shui for an answer.

I will say that if you’ve noticed the discord only happens when you discuss finances in a certain area of the home (in the dining room, for example), and that you also bicker about other issues in that space, then there may be feng shui factors involved. You should look for and correct or avoid any sources of sha chi in that room and see if you can talk about your finances more amicably in another area of the home.

If finances in general are an issue–in a broader sense than just dealing with personal/family finance tasks–then certainly you can look around for feng shui factors. But that’s far too broad a topic to be addressed here.

Sorry I can’t be of more help, but feng shui is only one of many “life tools” available to us: don’t reach for the hammer when what you need is a screwdriver.

Hope this helps in some way,
Stephanie R.

Q+A POLICY
The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Q: I have a small water fountain in my living room, placed by my front door. Unfortunately I have a dog that bumps into it whenever she looks out the living room window. Could you please suggest another option to activate that area?

A: A “water type cure” doesn’t have to be a fountain. It can be a photograph or painting of a fountain or a waterfall or of the ocean or a stream or river. It can be accessories in “water” colors like deep blues and blacks, and undulating “watery” lines, shapes. The options are unlimited.

Choose something that makes you smile and feel happier when you see it, and that it a size/shape/type appropriate to the space you have available for it.

Stephanie

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