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Archive for July, 2008

Mirrors Opposite Windows and Doors

Thursday, July 31st, 2008

Q: I’m a new subscriber and enjoyed reading your archives. I’m confused about the use of mirrors in feng shui. I spent yesterday moving mirrors to various locations because in their previous locations they reflected doors or windows. Yet, I also read that a mirror should reflect a beautiful view. How can I place a mirror to reflect a pretty view when it shouldn’t be placed oppostite a window/door?

A: I don’t know where you read that mirrors should not be placed opposite a window or door, but this is incorrect. Placing a mirror where it will reflect an attractive natural scene into the house (i.e., a view seen through a window) is a very positive benefit and one of the traditional uses of mirrors in feng shui.

There are some people who believe that a mirror should not be placed opposite the FRONT door (not all doors!), because it is thought to “reject” or “bounce back” any positive chi coming through the door.

However, I disagree with this view, as do many other feng shui practitioners. A mirror in the entry can be very beneficial, especially in a small entry with a wall “blocking” the door. A mirror in this position opens up the wall and creates the impression of greater space, as well as reflecting exterior chi into the house.

Hope this helps you gain more enjoyment from your mirrors,
Stephanie R.

Q+A POLICY
The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left). If you send me a question, do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Sink-Stove Opposition

Monday, July 21st, 2008

Q: In my kitchen the sink is exactly opposite the stove. I have read that this creates a lot of conflict in the house. Since it is impossible for me to shift the position of the appliances I would appreciate if you could recommend a cure for this.

A: The secret to figuring out how to remedy this and many other feng shui situations is to understand why it has earned a position on the don’t list. This case is one of many in which the problem lies in the elements represented.

The stove is associated with FIRE, and the sink with WATER. Fire and water are natural enemies: water extinguishes fire, and fire evaporates water. That conflict between the elements is why a sink-opposite-stove kitchen layout is said to lead to arguments and tension in the home.
Sure, you could invest in a kitchen renovation and move your appliances around, but that’s a very costly and time-consuming solution. The standard cure for this feng shui problem is to introduce the WOOD element as a peacemaker. The WATER chi of the sink will go to nourishing the WOOD, and WOOD will feed FIRE. Everybody’s happy, and water and fire aren’t getting in each other’s face any more.

In a spacious kitchen, you might have a table or island between the sink and stove. In that case, a nice (healthy, green) houseplant on the table can be the cure. (A wooden table, BTW, does not count as a wood-type object: it has no living chi; is either a metal (round, oval) or earth (square, rectangular) shape; and usually an earth (brown) or metal (white) color.)

In a smaller kitchen, where there’s no room for a table, a green area rug in front of the sink, in front of the stove, or half-way between them, will provide the same benefit. The rug can either be a solid green, or might have a pattern of green vines or leaves.

If you can’t use a rug, hang a green (or leaf-patterned) kitchen towel over the oven door handle.

As a last resosrt, if you can’t find any way to place something green between the sink and stove, put a small plant or two near the sink, and something else to represent the wood element near the stove.

This is very basic feng shui advice, BTW, and just one of the many common situations I discuss in Fast Feng Shui. I strongly recommend that feng shui beginners take some time to study the five elements as well as the ba gua if they wish to apply feng shui successfully to their homes.

Hope this helps,
Stephanie

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Fallen Wind Chime

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Q: The “Prosperity” wind chime (Chinese coins strung on red strings), which I had hung outside my front door, suddenly broke this weekend. I happened to look out this morning and saw them lying on the railing below where I had hung them. Can you tell me what that might mean? After I bought a rose quartz “love” bracelet that had broken, I read that this was actually a good thing. In the case of the bracelet, it mentioned that perhaps it symbolized that a cycle in my life was finally breaking and leading me onto a better path concerning love.

I have experienced a very difficult year financially and am awaiting word on an offer to purchase a piece of property I co~own, which had been my main source of income. We have been having trouble finding new tenants to replace the one large tenant who moved out over a year ago, so we are hoping to just sell the property finally. … If nothing else, I am so glad to have come across your website, Stephanie!!!

A: I believe what matters is what the broken wind chime means to you, not what meaning you might find if you could look it up in an index somewhere. Kind of like dreams: there may be universal meanings associated with various dream imagery, but any particular event or image might mean something very different to you than it does to most people. You did ask what I think, though, so here goes:

On the most mundane level, perhaps the wind chime fell because the string from which it was hanging isn’t suited to an outdoor location. Sun and rain damage fibers, so if it’s been out there for a while needing a new string would be normal. (It’s a good idea to inspect your feng shui remedies from time to time.) When you get into something like feng shui, where virtually everything has some symbolic meaning, it’s easy to start over-interpreting things. So, even though it’s worth exploring what a fallen wind chime might imply, jumping to the conclusion that it means something ominous or highly significant could be a stretch. That doesn’t mean it isn’t worth paying attention to, though, and I suggest that you do. If nothing else, it may signify that there’s some aspect of your money situation you’ve been taking for granted which could use attention before it “breaks.”

I also think that when something falls or breaks, it’s usually because you have conflicted feelings about it on some level. This would especially be likely if the string should not have worn out so quickly. Perhaps you aren’t 100% convinced that you’ve made the best decision about what to do with the property you’re selling. Doesn’t mean selling is the wrong decision, but maybe there are some issues you still need to make peace with.

When you feel undecided about something, flipping a coin can help you make up your mind: not because of any commitment to do what the heads-or-tails outcomes dictates, but because when you see the result, sometimes you feel an instant twinge of relief or disappointment, and that tells you what you really want to do.

Did you have a gut feeling when you saw the fallen wind chime? If so, was it “Uh oh, something’s not working out for me”, or “Oh, good, I’m moving away from needing that prosperity cure now”?

If you had an “uh oh” response, that’s a clue to explore what assumptions, beliefs, or anxieties you might have about money that are still factoring into your experience. It’s difficult to experience good results from feng shui if your mind is filled with doubt or worry, or if you have a subconscious belief that you don’t really deserve to prosper. I explore these very important issues in depth in my book, Fast Feng Shui for Prosperity, so you might want to take a look at that.

Whether your fallen wind chime is highly, or just mildly, significant, do be sure, if you’re going to hang it up again, to use a heavier/sturdier red string to hang it with, and be sure that the desired outcome you image is clear and strong in your mind.

Hope this helps you gain some helpful insight from the incident, and that your finances take a turn for the better soon,

Stephanie R.

Q+A POLICY
The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left). If you send me a question, do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Feng Shui Q+A now hosted here

Thursday, July 10th, 2008

We’re making some changes to our newsletter format, and starting today all Feng Shui Q+A topics will be posted here.

Instead of composing each newsletter issue as a separate web page (as we’ve done in the past; see back issues in the archives), we’ll be sending our subscriber list a monthly email with a summary of new blog posts as well as any other updates to this website.

Not only will this provide a wider selection of Q+A for readers to learn from, but we’ll also be keeping in more regular contact.

If you’re not yet a subscriber, you can become one here.

Originally Syndicated via RSS from Fast Feng Shui Blog

Feng Shui in your final resting place

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

peace and good chi even in the afterlifeI have to say that this is a bit of an unusual story for anyone who doesn’t have a full understanding of Feng Shui, but for some of us, it is a very comforting thought.

In the bay area near Oakland, an architech has taken the time to assure that people’s final resting place will be as auspicious and as positive as all of their living life had been.  Beautiful bay views, well place and arranged items, and a thoughtful design bring an inner piece to the departed and their families.

Feng Shui is for all of your life… and beyond!